If it is, and IT IS, you have the FREEDOM to decide to create according to your highest values at any time. Does that mean no one is trying to decide for us what benefits themselves? Of course not!
We still have the freedom to ask at any moment “How do I want to feel?” Determine your highest value is in that area of your life and decide you want to feel that. That’s how you create.
Altruistic and highest values always win out over smaller and petty values. That’s how our universe is created!